Thursday, September 30, 2010

On My Mind

John 21:15-19

When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, "Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?" 

He said to him, "Yes, Lord, you know that I love you." 

He said to him, "Feed my lambs."


He then said to him a second time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" 


He said to him, "Yes, Lord, you know that I love you." 


He said to him, "Tend my sheep."


He said to him the third time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" 


Peter was distressed that he had said to him a third time, "Do you love me?" and he said to him, "Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you." 


(Jesus) said to him, "Feed my sheep. Amen, amen, I say to you, when you were younger, you used to dress yourself and go where you wanted; but when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go."


He said this signifying by what kind of death he would glorify God. And when he had said this, he said to him, "Follow me."

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Songs I Like

God Gave Me You - Dave Barnes



I’ve been a walking heartache
I’ve made a mess of me
The person that I’ve been lately
Ain’t who I wanna be

But you stay here right beside me
Watch as the storm goes through
And I need you

God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
For when I think I’ve lost my way
*If* There are no words here left to say, it’s true
God gave me you

There’s more here than what were seeing
A divine conspiracy
That you, an angel lovely
Could somehow fall for me
You’ll always be love’s great martyr
Ill be the flattered fool
and I need you

God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
For when I think I’ve lost my way
*If* There are no words here left to say, it’s true
God gave me you

On my own I’m only
Half of what I could be
I can’t do without you
We are stitched together
And what love has tethered
I pray we never undo

God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
For when I think I’ve lost my way
*If* There are no words here left to say, it’s true
God gave me you, gave me you.
Gave me you.

Mine - Taylor Swift




Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Abundance vs. Scarcity Mentality

So something that I was reading in one of my class readings was about how as leaders, we ought to operate under an abundance mentality rather than a scarcity mentality. In other words, we ought not think that another's success takes away from our own. In fact, the idea that other's gain takes away from our own comes from a place of egocentrism. To feel threatened by another's success is a sign of our own own insecurity.

Beyond the realm of leadership, operating from a paradigm of abundance has great potential to open our hearts to a new way of being in the world.

What if we let go of fear and embraced challenge?
What if we stopped protecting our own assets and learned to be generous?
What if we stopped being stingy with our time and learned to give an extra 20 or 30 minutes to listen to the heartache of another without unburdening our own hearts of their sorrow?

So often we do not do the things we ought because we feel that we lose something in doing them and we fear being sucked dry.

While this does not mean that we ought to have no boundaries and let others TAKE, TAKE, TAKE without ever asking for our own needs to be met, I do think that this requires us to leave behind an adolescent egocentrism in favor of true Christian generosity.

I think St. Francis got this right:

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon:
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope
where there is darkness, light
where there is sadness, joy
O divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love;
for it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to Eternal Life.
Amen.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

A Love Poem for your Sunday


I'm going to try to start up some weekly features on my blog. Starting this week - and hopefully continuing each week, I'm going to post a new poem, passage, reflection that I find about God's love, since something I've been thinking about lately is that my own life's mission - at its core -is to tell people how much God loves them.

This week's poem is "A Lover Who Wants His Lovers Near" by Rabia, in Love Poems from God: Twelve Sacred Voices from the East and West by Daniel Ladinsky.

A LOVER WHO WANTS HIS LOVERS NEAR

He is
sweet that way,
trying to coax the world to dance.

Look how the wind holds the trees in its hands
helping them to
sway.

Look how the sky takes the fields and the oceans
and our bodies in its arms, and moves
all beings toward
His lips.

God must get hungry for us; why is He not also
a lover who wants His lovers 
near?

Beauty 
is my teacher
helping me to know He
cares for
me.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Peace and the Common Good

So last night I watched President Obama's speech regarding the removal of troops from Iraq, signaling the official end of Operation Iraqi Freedom which was begun by President Bush in 2003.

In case you missed it, here's a link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzO9LZzZoOk


I watched it on the White House's YouTube channel and participated in the discussion by submitting questions and voting on other questions. The two questions that I posted were (more or less):

1) The establishment of peace happens not merely in the absence of war, but requires the active promotion of the human flourishing of all. What are we prepared to do to assist Iraq in establishing lasting peace even as we remove our troops from their nation?

2) What is your plan, Mr. President, for establishing more collaboration and positive relationships with Iraq and other nations in the Middle East, and to promote long-term peace in the region?

I was shocked at how many people voted negatively against my questions. I was also shocked by how many questions were about "why are we spending billions abroad when we have people here who are in poverty?"  or "Let the Iraqis take care of their own country!"

While "charity begins at home," one also has to recognize that the poor in America often have access to safety nets (resources through social service agencies, charitable organizations, etc.) which do not exist in other nations, especially not in those just recovering from nearly a decade of war. I'm all for taking care of the poor here in the US, but we have to realize that we live in a globalized world. In his encyclical Sollicitudo Rei Socialis, Pope John Paul wrote:

"Solidarity ... is not a feeling of vague compassion or shallow distress at the misfortunes of so many people, both near and far. On the contrary, it is a firm and persevering determination to commit oneself to the common good; that is to say, to the good of all and of each individual, because we are all really responsible for all." (#38).

As I grow older I am realizing that it's problematic to have the view that I'm only responsible for what is immediately in front of me. I can go to the store and purchase a cheap t-shirt at a large store and think: "Great! I saved a few bucks!" But what I might not realize is that that shirt that I just bought was produced in a sweat shop by a child laborer. Or the vegetables we eat - may have been harvested by a migrant worker who is not paid a just wage for his or her labor because she is "undocumented." Nearly everything we consume, use, or purchase these days is a product of the global market. How I live my daily live here in the States - might be having an impact on the daily lives of people all over the world.

As cheesy as it sounds, I can't help but think of the song from Disney's Pocahontas - "And we are all connected to each other, in a circle, in a hoop that never ends."  Catholic Social Teaching would say that our good - is tied up with the common good of all humanity. If there are people suffering in any part of the globe, our good is not being fully realized.

All of us need to pray for the conversion of heart necessary to recognize the truth that we cannot stop caring about the people and situation of Iraq. Yes, we've invested billions in helping to (hopefully) secure political stability and freedom. Yes, it was a high price to pay that required great sacrifices from us as a nation. But  our job isn't - and will never be - finished. Now what the US needs to do is to increase its commitment to providing humanitarian aid and assistance with the economic, cultural, and spiritual development of Iraq. Ultimately, peace is not achieved with weapons but with caritas - love. Our continued commitment to these aims is what will help us secure their good - and ours.