Thursday, May 27, 2010
Picture - Test Run
Just doing a test run to see if i can get pictures to upload a bit bigger than normal. I'm hoping to blog (and post pictures) about my pilgrimage to the Holy Land. I thought this photo was so stinkin' cute I had to post it!
10 Days
10 Days until I leave for Jerusalem!
I'm working on crafting a pre-departure novena prayer to say up until the day I leave, starting tomorrow. I've searched high and low for one that's already written (a novena for pilgrimage to Jerusalem, that is), but have found none. What I have found, quite interestingly, is that traditionally Psalm 122 has been prayed by Jews and Christians as they approach the Holy City:
Psalm 122
A song of ascents. Of David.
1 I rejoiced with those who said to me,
"Let us go to the house of the LORD."
"Let us go to the house of the LORD."
2 Our feet are standing
in your gates, O Jerusalem.
in your gates, O Jerusalem.
3 Jerusalem is built like a city
that is closely compacted together.
that is closely compacted together.
4 That is where the tribes go up,
the tribes of the LORD,
to praise the name of the LORD
according to the statute given to Israel.
the tribes of the LORD,
to praise the name of the LORD
according to the statute given to Israel.
5 There the thrones for judgment stand,
the thrones of the house of David.
6 Pray for the peace of Jerusalem:
"May those who love you be secure.
"May those who love you be secure.
7 May there be peace within your walls
and security within your citadels."
and security within your citadels."
8For the sake of my brothers and friends,
I will say, "Peace be within you."
I will say, "Peace be within you."
9 For the sake of the house of the LORD our God,
I will seek your prosperity.
I will seek your prosperity.
What I also found was Pope Benedict XVI's prayer that he left in the Wailing Wall after his trip to Jerusalem, which is also nice:
God of all the ages,
on my visit to Jerusalem, the "City of Peace",
spiritual home to Jews, Christians and Muslims alike,
I bring before you the joys, the hopes and the aspirations,
the trials, the suffering and the pain of all your people throughout the world.
God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob,
hear the cry of the afflicted, the fearful, the bereft;
send your peace upon this Holy Land, upon the Middle East,
upon the entire human family;
stir the hearts of all who call upon your name,
to walk humbly in the path of justice and compassion.
"The Lord is good to those who wait for him,
to the soul that seeks him!" (Lam 3:25)
on my visit to Jerusalem, the "City of Peace",
spiritual home to Jews, Christians and Muslims alike,
I bring before you the joys, the hopes and the aspirations,
the trials, the suffering and the pain of all your people throughout the world.
God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob,
hear the cry of the afflicted, the fearful, the bereft;
send your peace upon this Holy Land, upon the Middle East,
upon the entire human family;
stir the hearts of all who call upon your name,
to walk humbly in the path of justice and compassion.
"The Lord is good to those who wait for him,
to the soul that seeks him!" (Lam 3:25)
But at the same time, I want to craft a prayer that is deeply personal, and which also speaks to the great desires of my heart and the ways I want God to work in my life. Consequently, I've also been looking at a number of other prayers that really speak to me in my current situation, including this famous prayer by Thomas Merton:
My Lord God,
I have no idea where I am going.
I do not see the road ahead of me.
I cannot know for certain where it will end.
Nor do I really know myself,
and the fact that I think I am following your will
does not mean that I am actually doing so.
But I believe that my desire to please you
does in fact please you.
And I hope that I have that desire
in all that I am doing.
I hope that I will never do anything
apart from that desire.
And I know that if I do this
you will lead me by the right road
though I may know nothing about it.
Therefore I will trust you always
though I may seem to be lost
and in the shadow of death.
I will not fear
for you are with me,
and you will never leave me
to face my perils alone.
I have no idea where I am going.
I do not see the road ahead of me.
I cannot know for certain where it will end.
Nor do I really know myself,
and the fact that I think I am following your will
does not mean that I am actually doing so.
But I believe that my desire to please you
does in fact please you.
And I hope that I have that desire
in all that I am doing.
I hope that I will never do anything
apart from that desire.
And I know that if I do this
you will lead me by the right road
though I may know nothing about it.
Therefore I will trust you always
though I may seem to be lost
and in the shadow of death.
I will not fear
for you are with me,
and you will never leave me
to face my perils alone.
I've got to find a way to combine all of these. Wish me luck!
Friday, May 21, 2010
Weight Loss Tricks
Here are some of my sustainable weight loss tricks:
0.5) Read "Healthy Living" entry first before proceeding. :)
1) Get enough sleep! I realized that I was chugging calorie-rich lattes and was fueling myself with a sugar-rich diet mostly to compensate for the lack of energy I had from not getting enough sleep. As soon as I began sleeping more, I found that my appetite was slightly less, and I craved the lattes and junk food less.
2) Reduce your stress levels. Give yourself permission to be human! Learn to be compassionate toward yourself, for you cannot love and be compassionate toward another unless you love and are compassionate toward yourself first! Honestly. I wish I had learned this lesson sooner. Learning that I didn't have to stress out over getting an A on every single paper has made me feel like a slacker, but not so! I've learned to just do my best and let that be enough, and *here's the shocker* I've STILL managed to keep a 4.0 this semester! I've learned that I need to make time for my emotional health (calling friends, making time to get together with people, doing fun things I love to d0 even when my homework isn't done yet... ) and that's helped me to stop emotionally eating. When I wasn't taking the time for self care in these crucial areas, I tended to fill up the emotional void with food. Emotional eating is probably one of the biggest reasons (at least, it was for me) of being overweight. Before eating something, I would ask myself: Am I hungry? Angry? Lonely? or Tired? (H.A.L.T.?) If I wasn't hungry, I would say, "well, don't eat then." And if I was Angry, Lonely, or Tired, I'd go take a shower, put on some happy music, or go call someone or go journal or take a nap or whatever I needed to feel better instead of eating.
3) Eat at least 5 servings of fruits and veggies a day. This is something to strive for - but to be honest, I don't always reach it. I usually eat about 2 bananas a day (they're cheap, and they're packed with nutrients and are filling!) - one at breakfast, and one as an afternoon snack. Then, I usually have at least one or two cups of steamed hot vegetables or a salad with every meal.
4) Drink water or milk (2 or 1% is best) with meals instead of soda/pop or juice. The milk will take the edge of hunger off and give you some calcium and protein, too.
5) A serving of protein is about the size of a deck of cards. Choose lean proteins like fish, chicken, or tofu as opposed to pork / beef. You really don't need to eat meat every day. That is an American thing which is making us extremely unhealthy. Animal products have lots of cholesterol and are often produced in factory farms which treat animals poorly and which destroy the environment. Just a few more reasons why we should cut back on our meat consumption! (see http://www.goveg.com/vegetarian101.asp) for more info: yes, I know it's from PETA... don't judge! ;) ).
6) Eat until you are full and then STOP. Hint: there will usually be something left on your plate!
7) When you see an amazing dessert that you MUST have - eat half and save the rest for later! Or just have a few bites, then throw the rest out. Either way, it's going to waist / waste. You pick which one: yours or the trash can! Inevitably, there is some amazing dessert in the dining hall every single day that tempts me. I finally came to the realization that they're not "treats" if you have them every day! Usually, I would talk myself out of eating the dessert by saying: "Look, it's not a "now or never" deal. If you don't get one today, they'll have it again in two weeks." That way, I could pass it up now and wait for something really good.
8) Don't deprive yourself. This might work for a short time and give you quick results, but you will backslide and probably gain back more than you lost. If your body is really craving something, go ahead and eat it! No foods should be forbidden. But keep in mind the suggestions in #7.
9) Fall in love! It makes you lose your appetite. I lost mine for about 2 or 3 weeks. I was seriously getting concerned... but it finally came back! Having no appetite makes it easy to eat smaller meals...
10) Find a physical activity that you love and do it just because you love it, not because it's exercise! I found that I love iceskating- and three days a week they have open skate on campus. I started going every friday with a good friend of mine in the MDiv, killing two birds with one stone: I had time to hang out and catch up with my friend, and I got some exercise! For me, I found out that I hate sweating. I like activities that get my pulse up, make me breathe a little bit more but don't make me exhausted, sweaty, overheated, etc. Skating for an hour is a great workout, but doesn't leave me feeling whipped! As the weather has gotten better, I often take leisurely walks around the two lakes here on campus (a two-mile loop) - sometimes even with my beau! It's romantic and healthy!
11) Only eat when you are hungry! It is terrible, but we sometimes eat three meals a day simply because that's the thing to do and it's habit. I started paying attention more to whether I was actually hungry or not, and only ate when i was really hungry. As a student, I always get what I call the "munchies" (cravings for snacks while studying - not the side effect of a drug induced high) and I realized that I don't have to eat something every time i get the munchies. seriously! If i have a cup of tea, it goes away. We have to learn to ignore those little hungers and wait until we're really hungry (you don't want to wait until you're at the point where you are famished, low blood sugar, cranky, ravenous, etc. but you do want to wait until you're really hungry before eating.) This will make your meal times more satisfying (the food tastes better when you're hungry!) and will get your body to a place where it is ready to digest and use the food for energy as opposed to storing it as fat.
12) Fast. This is a spiritual discipline which can give us more control over the appetites of the flesh. I hate fasting, and I am terrible at it. Every year I dread Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, mostly because I get all shaky and get headaches every time I try to fast, and also, then I obsess about when I can eat, and what I can eat, and whether what I'm eating is equivalent to one normal meal and two smaller meals which do not equal the one normal meal... yes, I'm a bit scrupulous. Anyway, the way for me to get over all of this craziness is to remind myself that there are plenty of persons around the globe who do not have access to healthy food every day. While I fast by choice, they fast because they have no choice. My discomfort for the two days a year I am asked to fast reminds me of the discomfort they experience daily, and this fasting, if it is the type of fasting which God wants from us, ought to lead us to greater solidarity and solicitude for the poor. For ways to help, check out http://www.foodforthepoor.org/ or http://www.crs.org/.
I think this last point is important because we can get so hung up on our own struggles with food that we forget that there are others whose struggle is greater. When we think only of ourselves, we lose perspective, and we miss an opportunity for growth in our union with God and with our brothers and sisters in the human family.
13) If you don't want to eat it, don't keep it in the house. For example, if I buy chocolate, I eat it in a day. Therefore, if I don't want to eat a whole bag of dove chocolates in a day, I shouldn't buy it. Or else, if i do buy it, I share! It's ok to want chocolate once in a while (especially at certain times of the month) but when you buy it, either buy it in single-serving quantities or eat one serving and then give the rest away! This was easy for me to do, seeing as I live and work in a women's residence hall, and the fact that I regularly put a bowl of chocolates outside my room was probably one of the things the residents liked most about me this year! Anyway, not having icecream around all the time or chocolate around made me really appreciate it when I did have it! (absence makes the heart grow fonder... hehe).
14) Portion size. Our idea of portion size is way out of control. Typically meals which we get in a restaurant are sooo big there is enough for 2-3 meals. Try cutting your meal in half (or thirds) before you begin and only eating a portion of it. At home, put less on your plate to begin with. If you're still hungry when you finish, you can get more. But more than likely, you'll be surprised that your hunger is satisfied, and you've avoided eating all those extra calories that you would then have to burn off by 4.5 hours of running, jogging, heavy labor, etc... which is NOT fun. It's easier to not eat things than it is to burn it off later.
0.5) Read "Healthy Living" entry first before proceeding. :)
1) Get enough sleep! I realized that I was chugging calorie-rich lattes and was fueling myself with a sugar-rich diet mostly to compensate for the lack of energy I had from not getting enough sleep. As soon as I began sleeping more, I found that my appetite was slightly less, and I craved the lattes and junk food less.
2) Reduce your stress levels. Give yourself permission to be human! Learn to be compassionate toward yourself, for you cannot love and be compassionate toward another unless you love and are compassionate toward yourself first! Honestly. I wish I had learned this lesson sooner. Learning that I didn't have to stress out over getting an A on every single paper has made me feel like a slacker, but not so! I've learned to just do my best and let that be enough, and *here's the shocker* I've STILL managed to keep a 4.0 this semester! I've learned that I need to make time for my emotional health (calling friends, making time to get together with people, doing fun things I love to d0 even when my homework isn't done yet... ) and that's helped me to stop emotionally eating. When I wasn't taking the time for self care in these crucial areas, I tended to fill up the emotional void with food. Emotional eating is probably one of the biggest reasons (at least, it was for me) of being overweight. Before eating something, I would ask myself: Am I hungry? Angry? Lonely? or Tired? (H.A.L.T.?) If I wasn't hungry, I would say, "well, don't eat then." And if I was Angry, Lonely, or Tired, I'd go take a shower, put on some happy music, or go call someone or go journal or take a nap or whatever I needed to feel better instead of eating.
3) Eat at least 5 servings of fruits and veggies a day. This is something to strive for - but to be honest, I don't always reach it. I usually eat about 2 bananas a day (they're cheap, and they're packed with nutrients and are filling!) - one at breakfast, and one as an afternoon snack. Then, I usually have at least one or two cups of steamed hot vegetables or a salad with every meal.
4) Drink water or milk (2 or 1% is best) with meals instead of soda/pop or juice. The milk will take the edge of hunger off and give you some calcium and protein, too.
5) A serving of protein is about the size of a deck of cards. Choose lean proteins like fish, chicken, or tofu as opposed to pork / beef. You really don't need to eat meat every day. That is an American thing which is making us extremely unhealthy. Animal products have lots of cholesterol and are often produced in factory farms which treat animals poorly and which destroy the environment. Just a few more reasons why we should cut back on our meat consumption! (see http://www.goveg.com/vegetarian101.asp) for more info: yes, I know it's from PETA... don't judge! ;) ).
6) Eat until you are full and then STOP. Hint: there will usually be something left on your plate!
7) When you see an amazing dessert that you MUST have - eat half and save the rest for later! Or just have a few bites, then throw the rest out. Either way, it's going to waist / waste. You pick which one: yours or the trash can! Inevitably, there is some amazing dessert in the dining hall every single day that tempts me. I finally came to the realization that they're not "treats" if you have them every day! Usually, I would talk myself out of eating the dessert by saying: "Look, it's not a "now or never" deal. If you don't get one today, they'll have it again in two weeks." That way, I could pass it up now and wait for something really good.
8) Don't deprive yourself. This might work for a short time and give you quick results, but you will backslide and probably gain back more than you lost. If your body is really craving something, go ahead and eat it! No foods should be forbidden. But keep in mind the suggestions in #7.
9) Fall in love! It makes you lose your appetite. I lost mine for about 2 or 3 weeks. I was seriously getting concerned... but it finally came back! Having no appetite makes it easy to eat smaller meals...
10) Find a physical activity that you love and do it just because you love it, not because it's exercise! I found that I love iceskating- and three days a week they have open skate on campus. I started going every friday with a good friend of mine in the MDiv, killing two birds with one stone: I had time to hang out and catch up with my friend, and I got some exercise! For me, I found out that I hate sweating. I like activities that get my pulse up, make me breathe a little bit more but don't make me exhausted, sweaty, overheated, etc. Skating for an hour is a great workout, but doesn't leave me feeling whipped! As the weather has gotten better, I often take leisurely walks around the two lakes here on campus (a two-mile loop) - sometimes even with my beau! It's romantic and healthy!
11) Only eat when you are hungry! It is terrible, but we sometimes eat three meals a day simply because that's the thing to do and it's habit. I started paying attention more to whether I was actually hungry or not, and only ate when i was really hungry. As a student, I always get what I call the "munchies" (cravings for snacks while studying - not the side effect of a drug induced high) and I realized that I don't have to eat something every time i get the munchies. seriously! If i have a cup of tea, it goes away. We have to learn to ignore those little hungers and wait until we're really hungry (you don't want to wait until you're at the point where you are famished, low blood sugar, cranky, ravenous, etc. but you do want to wait until you're really hungry before eating.) This will make your meal times more satisfying (the food tastes better when you're hungry!) and will get your body to a place where it is ready to digest and use the food for energy as opposed to storing it as fat.
12) Fast. This is a spiritual discipline which can give us more control over the appetites of the flesh. I hate fasting, and I am terrible at it. Every year I dread Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, mostly because I get all shaky and get headaches every time I try to fast, and also, then I obsess about when I can eat, and what I can eat, and whether what I'm eating is equivalent to one normal meal and two smaller meals which do not equal the one normal meal... yes, I'm a bit scrupulous. Anyway, the way for me to get over all of this craziness is to remind myself that there are plenty of persons around the globe who do not have access to healthy food every day. While I fast by choice, they fast because they have no choice. My discomfort for the two days a year I am asked to fast reminds me of the discomfort they experience daily, and this fasting, if it is the type of fasting which God wants from us, ought to lead us to greater solidarity and solicitude for the poor. For ways to help, check out http://www.foodforthepoor.org/ or http://www.crs.org/.
I think this last point is important because we can get so hung up on our own struggles with food that we forget that there are others whose struggle is greater. When we think only of ourselves, we lose perspective, and we miss an opportunity for growth in our union with God and with our brothers and sisters in the human family.
13) If you don't want to eat it, don't keep it in the house. For example, if I buy chocolate, I eat it in a day. Therefore, if I don't want to eat a whole bag of dove chocolates in a day, I shouldn't buy it. Or else, if i do buy it, I share! It's ok to want chocolate once in a while (especially at certain times of the month) but when you buy it, either buy it in single-serving quantities or eat one serving and then give the rest away! This was easy for me to do, seeing as I live and work in a women's residence hall, and the fact that I regularly put a bowl of chocolates outside my room was probably one of the things the residents liked most about me this year! Anyway, not having icecream around all the time or chocolate around made me really appreciate it when I did have it! (absence makes the heart grow fonder... hehe).
14) Portion size. Our idea of portion size is way out of control. Typically meals which we get in a restaurant are sooo big there is enough for 2-3 meals. Try cutting your meal in half (or thirds) before you begin and only eating a portion of it. At home, put less on your plate to begin with. If you're still hungry when you finish, you can get more. But more than likely, you'll be surprised that your hunger is satisfied, and you've avoided eating all those extra calories that you would then have to burn off by 4.5 hours of running, jogging, heavy labor, etc... which is NOT fun. It's easier to not eat things than it is to burn it off later.
Healthy Living
One of the accomplishments of this year for me was finally reaching a goal weight. (I actually couldn't tell you the number, but I know it because of my clothing sizes). While I've never been exceedingly overweight, I always carried a few extra pounds, which my pediatrician would always comment on (rather rudely). At one point, I even had a nurse (at the same physician's office) tell me that she was anorexic for a little while and that it helped her drop the pounds without any side effects! (She should be fired for implicitly telling a pre-teen girl that anorexia is the way to go). It also didn't help that I grew up in a very health-conscious family that routinely thought it useful to drag eight-year-old me on 30 mile bike rides! No wonder I would wake up in the middle of the night with excruciating leg pain! Hence, my abhorrence of any physical activity that is not explicitly FUN.Needless to say, because my family is obsessed with eating healthy (a family member of mine goes to weight watchers so that she doesn't gain more than five pounds --whereas most of the people there have 20, 30, or more lbs to lose and most likely find her presence obnoxious and insulting!) I have always been trying to find equilibrium in this area of my life and lose the last 10-15 lbs that put me into the "slightly overweight" category.
I joined weight watchers last year and learned a lot about healthy eating from it. (I highly recommend using their online program - it is a great way to keep track of what you're eating! and if anything, it will help you realize that you aren't nutritionally balanced.) http://www.weightwatchers.com/plan/www/online_01.aspx?navid=onlineaag
Their plan works (I lost around 10lbs) and is followable, but it is not easy! That plan was ultimately not sustainable for me (i.e. I was a grad student on a budget - meaning: my diet consists regularly of pizza and beer and I don't always have time to enter that information (or want to) into the system and I didn't want to pay to keep up my membership).
Eventually, I came up with my own plan that combined elements of Weight Watchers and things I learned from the book "French Women Don't Get Fat" (http://frenchwomendontgetfat.com/) which was both enjoyable and successful for me. The key thing for me was creating a plan that was enjoyable and thus sustainable. I came to realize that any plan that makes you feel deprived is NOT sustainable. Healthy eating should not be a chore, but should be enjoyable!
Rachel's Weight Loss Tricks to follow!
Vote!
Google is doing a competition among elementary and high school aged children to design a google homepage image which answers the question "If I could do anything I would ..."
The artwork and creativity of these kids is amazing! Take a few moments to look through them and cast your vote for your favorite in each category!
http://www.google.com/doodle4google/vote.html
Enjoy!
The artwork and creativity of these kids is amazing! Take a few moments to look through them and cast your vote for your favorite in each category!
http://www.google.com/doodle4google/vote.html
Enjoy!
Sunday, May 16, 2010
All That You Have ...
So as I get ready to head to Jerusalem in a few weeks, I'm beginning to spend some time in quiet reflection in preparation for the pilgrimage / course ahead of me. I'm trying to come up with a prayer of sorts that I can say as a Novena before I leave, and while I am there.
Meanwhile, I'm gathering prayer requests from friends and family members, and trying to also think about the particular grace (or graces!) that I want to ask God for on this pilgrimage.
A few things come to mind, some big, some small - in no particular order:
* to be a saint
* for freedom from fear, anxiety
* for greater fervor, zeal
* for clarity in discernment, particularly regarding my future ministry and my current dating relationship
* for physical healing for a friend of mine
* ??
* ??
Even while I seek to identify what grace I ought to ask for on this pilgrimage, the thought occurred to me (as Fr. Juraj once said in a homily), that there are so many and different graces that the Lord wants to give me, and to try and name and pick one would simply not do it justice. I'm also reminded of a part from St. Faustina's Diary in which Jesus tells her how much it pains him that so often we come to receive Him in Holy Communion, and His hands are so full of graces which He wishes to lavish on us, and we don't even ask! In light of this, I always try to remember in my thanksgiving prayer after Holy Communion to sing in my heart to Jesus, "I want all that you have for me." I think too, that on this pilgrimage God wants to give me a great deal of graces - and I need to be sure I don't limit God by having too narrow a vision of what to ask for!
Soften My Heart - Andy Park
Soften my heart with oil,
open my eyes to see
fill me with understanding,
Soften my heart to receive
I want all that You have for me
Jesus, all that You have for me
Open my understanding
Soften my heart to receive
I want all that You have for me.
Don't let my heart be fallow
Don't let my heart be hard
Water me with Your Spirit
Soften the ground of my heart
What would you ask God for at this time?
Thursday, May 13, 2010
On Human Nature
As I’ve mentioned before, a hobby (perhaps I should say “part time job”) of mine is reading self-help / relationship books. I love reading these things because usually they have a good deal of helpful information, but also because they challenge me to grow and to change how I approach things in life.For example, one relationship book I read made me realize that I had been hiding behind my homework for so long – and that if I was serious about relationships I needed to start making time for them. Shortly thereafter, I began dating!
Another big learning moment for me came while reading another relationship book which talked about how in healthy relationships the ratio of positive to negative interactions is 5:1; anything less than that, then the relationship is in a danger zone. Furthermore, I’ve done a lot of reading about emotional intelligence and assertiveness and realized that I often vacillate between “grinning and bearing it” – not saying anything about things that drive me nuts (being passive) and aggressive states, where I lash out and confront a person in a biting or unhelpful manner which usually distances me and causes me to feel terrible in retrospect. I realize that this pattern is one that I learned in my family, and I’m trying to be intentional about being assertive without being an a$$, that is, being honest and upfront about things that bother me in a way that respects and is open to the other person’s perspective as well.
As I mentioned in an earlier post, I wrote: “As I strive to evaluate the character of this other person, I cannot help but see myself under the same magnifying glass, and it is quite a humbling process!”
Being in relationship has helped me to see myself – my true character – more clearly. As I start to see my own weaknesses and the weaknesses of this other person, I need to remember these quotes which hang on my wall in my bedroom in Connecticut:
“Be patient with everyone, but above all with yourself. Do not be disturbed because of your imperfections, and always rise up bravely from a fall. Daily make a new beginning; there is no better means of progress in the spiritual life than to be continually beginning afresh, and never to think that we have done enough.” ~ St. Francis de Sales
“Don’t give into discouragement. If you are discouraged, it is a sign of pride because it shows you trust in your own powers. Never bother about people’s opinions. Be humble and you will never be disturbed. It is very difficult in practice because we all want to see the result of our work. Leave it to Jesus.” Bl. Teresa of Calcutta
It’s easy to judge ourselves or judge others harshly… but do we realize how merciful our God is? Our God – who took on human flesh is not unaware of our human weakness. Yet, do we realize how infinitely ready He is to pick us up, dust us off, and make us new? Our God – who has washed us clean in the waters of Baptism, who has imbued us with His Divine Spirit, the very power of God, and who has nourished us with the Flesh and Blood of His Son and continues to feed us still – if He has done all of this, how will He not heal us and take us to even greater depths of purification, perfection, holiness?
If our God is so merciful to us, we ought to, then, be extraordinarily merciful to one another. And even -- to ourselves.
To close, here's a beautiful quote which I got from the E-Devotion Franciscan University puts out. Though it applies to spouses, I think the advice goes for friendships and relationships as well!“If we wish to be more Christlike in our marriages, we must first and foremost develop a deeper attitude of love and acceptance for our spouse as he or she is, with all the imperfections. Instead of trying to change our beloved or becoming irritated with these faults, we must remain firmly committed to our husband or wife as persons who have been entrusted to us as a gift. Our fundamental attitude toward the beloved in the midst of weaknesses must not be one of agitation, defensiveness or annoyance, but one of unwavering acceptance in our hearts for the other, bearing patiently with all the faults. When we do this, we begin to love as God loves.”
Edward Sri
Men, Women and the Mystery of Love, St. Anthony Messenger Press
Monday, May 3, 2010
Language Stuff
So I'm working on some foreign language stuff right now, and I'm stuck trying to figure out how to roll my "r's." This has been a problem for me since way back in elementary school when I started taking Spanish; then again in high school when I took Italian; then in college when I took German, and ... you get the idea. ;)
I found this HILARIOUS video on YouTube which has, well, sort of helped!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gp1drqleHc0
Just thought I'd share for all those tongue-challenged folks out there.
I found this HILARIOUS video on YouTube which has, well, sort of helped!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gp1drqleHc0
Just thought I'd share for all those tongue-challenged folks out there.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
If These Walls Could Talk...
So since I have barely any homework left to do, I've been spending ridiculous amounts of time doing ridiculous things. Take, for example, my newfound fascination with finding pictures of graffiti... kind of reminds me of the "Post Secret" blog (postsecret.blogspot.com)... Here are some of my favorites:
And the best one:
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